Getting the courage to ask someone on a first date is like trying to leap over a tall fence while wearing roller skates. You start by pacing nervously, rehearsing your opening line for the umpteenth time. When you finally muster up the courage to approach them, you open your mouth and the squeak that spills out echoes like a frog on steroids. Somehow you croak the question: would you like to go out with me?
After an eternal second, they respond. What do you want to do? A bucket of ice-cold water pours through your veins. Your voice squeaks like your vocal chords have gone through a blender. Their question is simple, and yet the answer is anything but. Partially because you never even considered where you would take your date. Can I get back to you on that?
It’s a flat response, but you’ll make up for it because this isn’t just any date. This is a life-altering opportunity, one you don’t want to mess up. This person deserves only the best. And so here you are, trying with all your might to come up with an idea of what might impress them the most. Fortunately for you, you know their birthday.
Sun signs, which correlate to someone’s birthday, are the most commonly known and studied aspect of astrology. It refers to the position of the sun at the time of a person’s birth and represents their core identity and ego. However, every person also has a moon and rising sign, so while someone may be a Leo sun sign, they could also be a Pisces moon and have a Sagittarius rising.
The moon sign is based on the position of the moon at the time of a person’s birth. It represents a person’s emotional nature, inner self, and instincts. It is often said to be the “hidden” side of a person’s personality that is revealed only to those closest to them. To determine the moon sign, you need to know the exact time and location of birth, as the moon moves through the zodiac sign every few days.
The rising sign, also known as the ascendant, represents the first impression a person makes on others. It’s the zodiac sign that was rising on the horizon at the time of birth. The rising sign influences a person’s physical appearance, demeanor, and approach to the world. Think of it as the mask a person wears in public. To determine the rising sign, you need to know the exact time and location of birth.
However, since the sun sign represents a person’s core identity, these first date ideas are a helpful start to get to know a person’s interests, icebreakers, if you will, before you hopefully get to know the deeper side of someone.
Aries (March 21 – April 19)
The first fire sign of the zodiac, and the first sign overall, Aries likes to take the lead. They’re known for being energetic, adventurous, and passionate, and would prefer first dates that allow them to take charge and make decisions. A first date that involves some element of competition or challenge would appeal to their competitive nature. Aries love anything that gets their heart racing and their adrenaline pumping. Consider going for a hike, playing a round of mini-golf, or hitting up a batting cage.
On the extreme end of the adventure scale, an Aries may enjoy bungee jumping, skydiving, or rock climbing, anything that offers a rush of excitement and an interesting challenge. If that’s not your cup of tea, you can also suggest a concert or festival. Aries love a good party atmosphere and the chance to socialize, show off their dance moves, and have a good time. Aries also appreciate luxury and like to indulge themselves, so taking them to a fancy restaurant is a great way to treat them. They love to have a good meal and experience new tastes, so trying out a new cuisine or restaurant can be a great first date.
Taurus (April 20 – May 20)
The first earth sign in the zodiac, the Taurus is perhaps one of the most grounded. They’re known for their pragmatism, patience, and loyalty. Taureans have a penchant for sensuality and are romantic, balancing a taste for the finer things in life with their soothing, peaceful mentality. They appreciate beauty in all its forms. A Taurus would prefer a first date that is relaxing, comfortable, and allows them to connect with their date on a deeper level.
Taurus is ruled by Venus, the planet of love and beauty, so visiting a beautiful space would be a perfect first date. Consider doing something calming and outdoors, like visiting a botanical garden. They would appreciate the tranquil surroundings, the peace of nature, and enjoy the opportunity to connect over their shared appreciation for the aesthetic. A trip to an art gallery or museum would give them the same experience. Taurus has an eye for art, beauty, and culture.
Taurueans also enjoy indulging in life’s pleasures, and wine tasting is an excellent way to do that. They love to indulge their senses with flavors and aromas. Similarly, they love tasting good food. A high-end restaurant with gourmet cuisine will impress them.
Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
An air sign ruled by Mercury, the planet of communication, Geminis are known for being social, talkative, and intellectually curious. They are quick-witted and adaptable and enjoy exploring new ideas and experiences. For a first date, a Gemini would prefer something that is interesting, stimulating, and engaging.
Gemini’s enjoy humor and entertainment, so attending a comedy show is a perfect first date for them. They appreciate the opportunity to laugh and have a good time, and it provides an excellent space for conversation and connection. Geminis are also curious and love to explore new places and experiences. A city tour is a unique way to do that. They enjoy learning new things and appreciate a good conversation, so it provides an opportunity to connect on a deeper level.
Gemini’s are known for their love of learning and reading. A visit to a bookstore is a stimulating way to indulge that passion. They enjoy the intellectual discovery and conversation that comes with browsing through books. Trivia would also spark their interest, as Geminis enjoy intellectual challenges and showing off their knowledge. They appreciate learning and exploring new ideas and experiences. The more random and surprising, the better for an adaptable, flexible Gemini.
Cancer (June 21 – July 22)
Cancers are known for being emotional, nurturing, and sensitive. They enjoy creating a comfortable, safe environment for themselves and those around them. For a first date, a Cancer would prefer something that is cozy, intimate, and allows them to connect on a deeper emotional level.
Cancers enjoy spending time in nature and appreciate a peaceful, relaxing environment. A picnic in the park is a perfect first date for them. They enjoy simple pleasures, like good food, a comfortable blanket, and easy, intimate conversation. Alternatively, because Cancers are nurturing and love caring for others, they’d probably enjoy a cooking class or making dinner with you at home.
Cancers are water signs and have a deep connection to the ocean and marine life. Visiting an aquarium is a great way to indulge that passion in a peaceful, serene environment. Because they’re homebodies, Cancers would love nothing more than watching a movie at home. While it might not be best for a first date, as Cancers are slow to invite people into their space, Cancers might be open for this for a second or third date. They crave connections on a deeper level and enjoy spending time with someone who shares those values.
Leo (July 23 – August 22)
Bold and brave, Leo is a confident and charismatic fire sign. They love being the center of attention and appreciate grand gestures and large romantic displays that make them feel special and important. For a first date, a Leo would prefer something that is impressive, exciting, and allows them to shine.
Leos enjoy drama and appreciate the opportunity to show off their style and personality. Attending a theater performance would give them the chance to dress up and enjoy a cultured environment and an entertaining, dramatic performance. Likewise, a museum or art gallery would give them the opportunity to appreciate art and beauty and immerse themselves in a stimulating environment. Leos appreciate luxury and indulgence and enjoy being treated like royalty. A fancy dinner or event is a perfect first date for them. It provides an opportunity to put out their nicest outfit, enjoy a delicious meal, and be treated like a VIP. Leos love having a spotlight on them.
When Leo isn’t leaning toward the luxury side of life, they’re out in the world getting adventurous. Leos enjoy excitement, and they are not afraid to take risks. An outdoor adventure such as hiking, bungee jumping, or a hot-air balloon ride would allow them to show off their fiery spirit. Grand gestures are important to Leos, so whatever you choose to do, aim to make them feel extra special. By bringing roses or making a reservation at an esteemed restaurant, you’ll show you’re going above and beyond for them, increasing the likelihood that you’ll get a second date.
Virgo (August 23 – September 22)
Virgos are known for being analytical, practical, and detail-oriented. They appreciate order and routine and enjoy activities that challenge their mind and intellect. For a first date, a Virgo would prefer something that allows them to learn something new and connect on an intellectual level.
Virgos appreciate healthy living and are passionate about food and nutrition. A visit to a farmer’s market would target this interest as well as their love for the outdoors. If the weather is nice, consider inviting them to your local outdoor market. Virgos also appreciate art, history, and culture and enjoy immersing themselves in new experiences. A visit to a museum is a great way to indulge that passion.
Virgos enjoy being active and appreciate nature. An outdoor activity such as a hike, bike ride, or kayaking is a perfect first date for them. It provides an opportunity to connect over shared interests, enjoy the beauty of nature, and engage in physical activity.
Libra (September 23 – October 22)
Libras are known for being social, charming, and romantic. They appreciate beauty, harmony, and balance. For a first date, a Libra would prefer something that is elegant, romantic, and allows them to connect with others on a deeper, emotional, and intellectual level.
Because Libras are flexible and enjoy going with the flow, they’ll probably have fun with whatever you suggest. However, if you really want to impress them, consider incorporating an element of luxury in your date. Because they’re all about balance, consider spicing things up a bit. If the first half of your date is quiet and calm, make the second half fast-paced and exciting. You could start with an art exhibit or a wine tasting, and end with a concert or a movie in the park. They appreciate opportunities to engage in intimate conversation and connect on an emotional level and dates that then get them out in the world with you will allow them to do just that.
Scorpio (October 23 – November 21)
Scorpios are known for being passionate, intense, and mysterious. They appreciate deep connections and enjoy activities that allow them to explore the depths of their emotions and desires.
Scorpios appreciate privacy and intimacy and enjoy the comfort of their own space. A private dinner at home is a perfect first date for them. It provides an opportunity to connect on a deeper level, engage in intimate conversation, and showcase their culinary skills. Because Scorpio appreciate mystery and enjoy exploring the unknown, they’d enjoy a visit to a haunted house or stargazing on the beach.
Scorpios appreciate drama and intensity and enjoy being entertained. Consider attending a live theater performance or taking an outdoor adventure. Scorpios aren’t afraid to take risks and because they like being active, hiking, camping, or rock climbing would be a perfect first date for them.
Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21)
Sagittarius is adventurous, outgoing, and independent. Wanderlust is their middle name. They appreciate freedom and enjoy exploring new places and experiences. For a first date, a Sagittarius would prefer something that is exciting, stimulating, and allows them to explore their sense of adventure.
An outdoor adventure like biking or hiking would allow them to bond with you over a physical activity, however a Sag would also be equally as down for a random road trip to the beach. Freedom and travel are everything to them and allowing them to showcase their adventurous spirit is a fast way to their heart.
Sagittarians appreciate diversity and enjoy experiencing different cultures. They enjoy getting out in the world and socializing with friends and strangers. Consider inviting them to a cultural event such as a food festival, dance performance, or art exhibit. They’ll appreciate any place where they can interact with others and show off their free-spirited, adventurous nature.
Capricorn (December 22 – January 19)
Capricorns are known for being practical, ambitious, and responsible. They appreciate structure and routine and enjoy activities that allow them to engage their mind and intellect. For a first date, a Capricorn would prefer something that is organized, structured. Whatever you do–don’t blindside them. Capricorns like being prepared and want to know what to expect when they go out with you.
They appreciate history and enjoy learning about the past. A visit to a historical site, a museum, or a tour around your city would allow them to explore this passion. Capricorns also appreciate elegance and refinement and enjoy being in a formal setting. If you invite them to a gala or ball, they’ll eat up the chance to dress up, engage in formal conversation, and showcase their sophistication. If you’re like me, however, and don’t get invited to elegant balls, inviting Capricorn to dinner at a fine dining, upscale restaurant will serve the same goal. And if your wallet is a little too tight for such a luxury, a Capricorn would be more than happy to visit a bookstore or library, as they love expanding their knowledge base. Not only do they enjoy reading, but they will be more than happy to engage in conversations that ignite their intellectual, sophisticated side.
Aquarius (January 20 – February 18)
Aquarians are the outliers of the zodiac, so good luck getting them to commit to a date. They’re independent, eccentric, and appreciate originality. They’re more likely to say yes to your invite if you make it clear that they can have a say in what you do. A sense of freedom is incredibly important to them. For a first date, an Aquarius would prefer something that is unique, unconventional, and allows them to connect on an intellectual level. I recommend suggesting three activities and letting them pick what to do. If they have fun, you’ll know it and will most likely pick something for you two to do next.
Aquarians enjoy challenges and problem-solving and appreciate activities that require mental stimulation. A visit to an escape room would be a fun way to spend an hour and still give you time to let them figure out what to do next. If that’s not your thing, consider playing trivia or visiting a science museum, activities that will strike their desire to solve problems and explore new ideas.
If your Aquarium crush has expressed passion for a political party or social justice, invite them to a rally, as they’ll probably enjoy advocating for causes they believe in. The bottom line? The more unique and unconventional, the better.
Pisces (February 19 – March 20)
Pisces are sensitive, intuitive, and creative. They appreciate art and romance and enjoy activities that allow them to explore their emotions and imagination. For a first date, a Pisces would prefer something that is romantic, creative, and allows them to connect on an emotional level.
Pisces appreciate art and beauty and enjoy immersing themselves in cultural experiences. Visit an art gallery, dance at a concert, or attend a poetry reading or open mic night. Even if they don’t have a creative profession, Pisces appreciate creativity and enjoy expressing themselves through the arts. They have a romantic side, so if you’re feeling brave, invite them to take a dance class. Expressing yourself through movement will not only engage Pisces’ appreciation of movement, but it’s an opportunity to get physically close to them in a romantic, creative way.
If you have two left feet and don’t want to embarrass yourself, invite Pisces to do something outside. As a water sign, they love nature and enjoy spending time near water. A visit to a beach or lake is a great way for them to indulge that passion.
Keep in mind
If you have a different sun sign than your crush, you may or may not be interested in the kind of dates described above. This is also a good opportunity to judge if you and your crush are compatible, and while you’ll probably need to spend time with them to know for sure, it’s important to note that compatibility is more than just the difference between introverts and extroverts.
And remember, while it’s great to impress someone on a first date, but a well-rounded relationship would mean that your partner would also consider the way you’d want to spend your time, too. For more in-depth compatibility between signs, check out these zodiac comparisons to gain a deeper understanding of a potential connection between you and your crush.
